One of the reasons why some of us hold on is because we fear that when we let go for good, our ex will become the person we wanted him or her to be. It doesn't matter and we need to let that go. Holding on for something that may not happen and may not work even if it...

The need for approval is an overdeveloped defense mechanism. It's important to lose our attachment to approval from disapproving people. It will never happen.  [iframe style="border:none"...

In the first of a few planned episodes, we begin our discussion of unresolved childhood struggles playing themselves out in adult relationships.  [iframe style="border:none"...

We are coming back this week! These 2 podcasts are to let you know where we've been, what we're working on and what Season 3 will hold!  These podcasts are not numbered as they are not "true" podcasts and will be deleted in the future.   [iframe...

We are coming back this week! These 2 podcasts are to let you know where we've been, what we're working on and what Season 3 will hold!  These podcasts are not numbered as they are not "true" podcasts and may be deleted in the future.   [iframe...

We all see the world, and other people, how we ourselves are. I have spoken of this many times but it's still a hard concept to get - that someone we cared for did not see things (the world/us) the way we thought. Then we want to tell the world how they "really"...

The symptoms of codependency and narcissism are similar.  Are they the same? Can they be the same? More information about rebooting the podcast and preparing for Season 3.   [iframe style="border:none"...

When you are in a relationship and something traumatic happens to your partner and they suddenly change into a crazy person. What do about that and how much are you responsible for. [iframe style="border:none"...

We are doing a bit of a go-round for the end of Season 2 and comments on Chris Watts appeal.  More Watts material in Episode 98. [iframe style="border:none"...

The rest of the 2-part episode which concentrates on the anger and acting out of the covert narcissist focusing on Chris Watts. We compare the covert narcissist to the overt narcissist (or vulnerable v. grandiose) and the slow burn they do which starts as sulking and...

As promised, this 2-part episode concentrates on the anger and acting out of the covert narcissist focusing on Chris Watts. We compare the covert narcissist to the overt narcissist (or vulnerable v. grandiose) and the slow burn they do which starts as sulking and can...

In this episode we're continuing the "go round" and discussion of Antisocial Personality Disorder as well as Conduct Disorder and Oppositional Defiant Disorder in children.  This episode will give a preview of the frauditor material coming in Season 3 (the...

99A a preview of Season 3, a return to the horrible Psychology Today debacle (for a reason), cyberbulllying, name calling, quick take on the Stauffers, and tying up loose ends in Season 2. I will link to all the channels mentioned in parts A & B as soon as I...

More preview of Season 3, more loose ends tying up - talking about Chris Watts, the nitwit network, narcissism, ASPD, a discussion of troubling YT and TT personalities like Zoe Laverne and ACE Family, "Stan" behavior, recommended channels for some lulz. [iframe...

Here it is the LAST episode in Season 2!!!! And as promised we are covering 3 types of addiction: internet, sex and pornography and for the last 2, the effect on partners, which can result in betrayal trauma. [iframe style="border:none"...