MLT Ep 83 Talking About Ambivalance

I get a lot of email on ambivalence.  When the “GIG” feelings go away, you’re often left with a smaller level of emotion and you’re not quite sure what that is about. Its VERY VERY NORMAL. 

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Episode 39a: Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths and the Watts Family Murders Part 1

Episode 13: Personality Disorders and a Disordered Publication

Episode 56: Jealousy, Blaming and Gaslighting

Episode 1: Why Is It Named The Mean Lady Talking Podcast?

Episode 54a: Narcissists, Love Bombing, Mirroring and Catfishing Jerks

Episode 5: Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Grief, Guilt and Regret

 

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MLTEP 84 Talking About Decisions

Part of our recovery is making decision all along the way as to who and what we are as a person and as a couple. Before you get back into a relationship, you need to decide what you’re going to be and how you’re going to decide if this person is for you.  It’s about “you get what you put up with” and how you arrive at what you put up with.

 

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Episode 1: The Mean Lady Talking Podcast

Some of MLT's Best!

Episode 36a: The MLT Grief and Loss Series

Episode 59a: Attachment, Rejection & Grief Series

Episode 63a: Sick Relationships and Our Recovery From Them Part 1

Episode 39a: Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths and the Watts Family Murders Part 1

Episode 13: Personality Disorders and a Disordered Publication

Episode 56: Jealousy, Blaming and Gaslighting

Episode 1: Why Is It Named The Mean Lady Talking Podcast?

Episode 54a: Narcissists, Love Bombing, Mirroring and Catfishing Jerks

Episode 5: Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Grief, Guilt and Regret

 

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MLT Ep 85 More on Boundaries

In preparation for the release of Power! Boundaries, I invite everyone to send me questions, comments, situations about setting boundaries.  No, they are not easy, but they are vital.

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This is the MLT Grief, Loss and Attachment Episodes Page - Go HERE

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Episode 1: The Mean Lady Talking Podcast

Some of MLT's Best!

Episode 36a: The MLT Grief and Loss Series

Episode 59a: Attachment, Rejection & Grief Series

Episode 63a: Sick Relationships and Our Recovery From Them Part 1

Episode 39a: Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths and the Watts Family Murders Part 1

Episode 13: Personality Disorders and a Disordered Publication

Episode 56: Jealousy, Blaming and Gaslighting

Episode 1: Why Is It Named The Mean Lady Talking Podcast?

Episode 54a: Narcissists, Love Bombing, Mirroring and Catfishing Jerks

Episode 5: Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Grief, Guilt and Regret

 

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MLT Ep 82 Doing the Work and Healing The Pain


Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode 3 Show Notes

First of all –
My apologies for the quality of the audio. My recording software actually switched from my professional microphone to the laptop microphone….see the difference? My apologies. It was in distribution before I realized what happened. It almost happened again after this but now I check it. LEARNING!

Second of all, sorry for some of the moving around noise on the podcast. I normally don’t record videos or audio during the day because of landscapers and neighbors with dogs (if you’ve seen some of my videos, you’ve heard some of this)…I had appointments all night so I did the podcast during the day and when I would hear those dopey landscapers rev up or a barking dog, I would try to move away from the noise as best I could…so sorry for the moving around noises a few places on the podcast!

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Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode 3: 

Crisis as Opportunity or the Facebook Group Gets Really, Really Mean

When written in Chinese the word crisis is composed of two characters. One represents danger, and the other represents opportunity. ~ John F. Kennedy

Crisis is opportunity when played correctly. When faced with a crisis, recognize the opportunity to change your life and become everything you’ve always wanted to be. ~ Susan J. Elliott

What’s In The Show (times are approximate)

Facebook Group Brouhaha (it’s always something) starts the podcast

Talking about the JFK quote above starts at approximately 5:35

When you feel bad, what do you do?  12:00

Talking to my mother about her abuse of me when I was a child (one laugh riot after another) at 23:30

How healthy people behave starts at 35:30

What crisis indicates in our lives starts at 36:50

A complete stranger tells me, “You’re a child of God, and God loves you” after I show up at the doctor’s office a complete mess after crying all night….story at 37:45

What to do when faced with a crisis at 42:00

Having trouble with mantras?  The workbook with mantra exercises is HERE

What is referred to in the podcast:

I talk about being in labor with my 3rd child at approximately minute 20…if you want to hear the WHOLE story – it’s on my YouTube videos “My Story” starts  HERE.

At approximately 43: 15 I talk about being pulled up on stage by Southside Johnny (it’s in the book Getting Back Out There)…at  and the video to that night is HERE

The headphones I talk about in the podcast can be found here:
AcousticSheep SleepPhones Classic Sleep Headphones (Black, Medium – One Size Fits Most)

These are the ones I have now: SleepPhones SB1GM Wireless | Bluetooth Headphones | Ultra Thin Speakers | Lightweight & Comfortable Headband | Best for Insomnia | Includes Micro USB for Recharging | Soft Gray – Fleece Fabric

My brain as a silly place at 49:26 – reference to MP and the Holy Grail – this scene 

MLT Episode 82 Doing the Work and Healing the Pain

What We've Been Working On!  Topic Pages!

Guide To Topic Pages

Below you will find a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on personality disorders, a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on dating and a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on Grief, Loss and Rejection and Attachment. 

 

This is the MLT Personality Disorders Page - Go HERE

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This is the MLT Grief, Loss and Attachment Episodes Page - Go HERE

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Why Is It Called The Mean Lady Talking?

Episode 1: The Mean Lady Talking Podcast

Some of MLT's Best!

Episode 36a: The MLT Grief and Loss Series

Episode 59a: Attachment, Rejection & Grief Series

Episode 63a: Sick Relationships and Our Recovery From Them Part 1

Episode 39a: Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths and the Watts Family Murders Part 1

Episode 13: Personality Disorders and a Disordered Publication

Episode 56: Jealousy, Blaming and Gaslighting

Episode 1: Why Is It Named The Mean Lady Talking Podcast?

Episode 54a: Narcissists, Love Bombing, Mirroring and Catfishing Jerks

Episode 5: Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Grief, Guilt and Regret

 

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MLT Ep 81 The Infidelity Podcast!

Show Notes

The Infidelity Podcast!!!!

00:00                                   Okay. Guys, before we get started, I’m wanting to give an announcement about the study hall and the next bootcamp.

00:50                                   So if you want the registration form, it will be available after November 1st send me email.

01:38                                   It is limited. There’s usually a wait list. This is the holiday boot camp. It’s going to go on for eight weeks, a while, nine weeks. We do a break in the middle, so it’s nine week boot camp. We do a break in the middle and I hope to start it a week or so before Thanksgiving so that you have a lot of support through the holidays. So please send me email, let me know what you you’re willing to do.

03:33                                   Good day everybody. This Susan Elliott host mean lady talk and uh, CAS and welcome to episode 81 this is the infidelity podcast that I’d been talking about for the past you hot pass and I’d do working on. So sit back, relax, enjoy yourself. And I understand that this is the advice about infidelity. Nothing more, nothing less. Don’t go any place else. Don’t listen to anyone else. This is the final word on infidelity of a partner. And if you know somebody else and want to take on a few people in this, if you know another expert that says something different, don’t listen to them. They are wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. When my kids were growing up, they used to talk about how my husband’s wife was like stupid and we had an expression wrong with a Joanne our, because we were figured she couldn’t spell anything. So if another expert tells you anything that goes against what I’m about to tell you, they are “Wrong with a Joanne R” wrong.

04:54                                   Okay. So I was living, I think I was living in New York when Eliot Spitzer came out as having been hiring coal girls and other people while he was governor and he lost his governorship and he was a good governor. And that’s one of the things that really bothers me about these guys. You know, bill Clinton was a good president. Anthony Wiener was a good representative. Eliot Spitzer was a good governor. Why do these guys have to do this stupid shit? It’s just ridiculous. Now John Edwards, who was a vice presidential candidate, and again, he was a good candidate about eight years ago. Dr Laura Schlessinger, who ia somebody I disagree with most of the time. She did write a book where they, where the title was something like how could you do something like that? And I kind of agreed with her philosophy at the time of how people do these crazy things that you would never expect.

05:56                                   But when it came to infidelity, she was completely off the Mark. She said that if a husband strays a wife is not doing something right, which is completely and utterly ridiculous. Her exact words were, I would challenge the wife to find out what kind of wife she’s being. Is she being supportive and approving and loving? Is she being sexually intimate and affectionate? Is she making him feel like he’s her man? If she’s not doing that, then she’s contributing to is wrong choice. And that is bullshit because she was saying it about John Edwards and Elizabeth Edwards, if you remember had cancer at the time that John Edward strayed. So how was she supposed to be tending to his sexual needs when she has cancer and she has kids to raise? So she was busy tending to our cancer. And her children and Johnny’s strayed. So that was Elisabeth’s fault.

06:55                                   Well whaat is enough? I mean, if you’re stricken with cancer and you’re going to terrible chemo affects, and I was on chemo for lupus and I wasn’t, I didn’t get the full chemo or radiation where your hair falls out

08:02                                   I mean, exactly a what point is sick enough? Sick enough. And even if you’re not sick with chemo but you have a house full of kids and you have a job and you’re tired, at what point do you think your being enough of a wife but the cheater could rationalize that you’re not, you should be at his Beck and call it all times. I mean w what the hell does that mean? Statements like that just give cheaters excuses and there are no excuses for cheating. Male or female, no excuses for cheating. My ex was safe, I was only better, different, more. He wouldn’t cheat and if I was five foot eight I could have been a model. You know that’s a judge Judy line, but it’s true. It’s like if I was five foot eight I could have been a model. If I had a crown, I’d be queen of England.

08:49                                   If only this, if only that, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, freaking blah. It’s nonsense. If your mate is not doing their part quote on quote, you have three options and three options only excepted change it or leave. Got it. Three one, two, three accepted. Change it or leave. That’s it. Cheating is not on that list.

09:47                                   It had to do with my medical issues and he didn’t always understand, but most of the time he did and there was this bit of a chasm between us on that particular issue, but he didn’t go out and cheat on me. He just didn’t. And so you know, Dr. Laura who has rocks in her head, leaves open the question of enough. What is enough? When you say things like the wife doesn’t do enough, that leaves it open for any cheater to say anything that they did. They could stand on their head and spit nickels and it’s not enough.

11:01                                   So I wanted to change careers and go to Katie Gibbs to get a good job.

12:25                                   So I was in school and Christmas time comes with lots of company and kids and sick kids and lots of stuff to do.

14:21                                   And after Christmas he started cheating on me. He took all of that. The fact that I was in school, the fact that it didn’t matter that I did the cooking, the cleaning, the babysitting six kids, he was totally irrational. So if somebody is cheating on you and they want to blame you for it, you leave some stupid statement like the wife isn’t doing enough.

15:34                                   Accept it, change it or leave. Cheating is not on that freaking list. Those are the three choices, no more and no less.

16:30                                   If this doesn’t change to three months, I’m outta here. He tells her, I don’t like this.] You’re not telling me why you’re not giving me any hints. You’re not letting me know what’s going on. So if this doesn’t change two or three weeks, I’m out of here. If this isn’t change it two or three months, I’m outta here. You know, whatever he feels is the REASONABLE time. Again, I’ve talked about this on many, many podcasts. The legal standard that is used is what would a reasonable person do.

18:17                                   People learn to live with things that other people would find and reasonable to live with.

19:00                                   A boyfriend of mine had issues with speeding and stopped going to meetings.

19:59                                   I decided what I was going to do about it. NOT go to another meeting.

21:46                                   Dr. Laura thinks you should treat your man like a HERO.  Like Bella Watts called her father her hero.

22:40                                   Chris Watts was treated like a hero by his wife and by his daughters and he cheated and he murdered them.

23:49                                   Don’t give me this hero bullshit.

25:47                                   Loyalty is paramount. It’s not ego. If someone at home doesn’t treat you like a hero and you want to be treated like a hero, you have three choices. Guess what they are is accepted. There’s change it and there’s leave. There’s no cheat on your spouse cause that’s not on the list.

26:46                                   Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie were supposed to be “THE” couple.  It didn’t work.

28:49                                   You don’t get to take  a test drive with this other person before you buy the car and sell the old one. Test drives are not allowed when you’re married or in a committed relationship. Test drives are also something not on the list. If you listened to the district attorney talking about Chris Watts the day he was sentenced, the district attorney said, why didn’t he just get a divorce

30:39                                   Do the right thing. Keep our side of the street clean. Stop making excuses for bad decisions. Even if you’re a single and the other person is married, is not okay. Infidelity is an indication of a problem in the relationship and maybe in the cheating partner, not the other partner.

31:42                                   No, no, no. If you’re the cheating partner, figure out why you’re doing what you’re doing and stop doing it. Clear your side of the street. Get right with yourself. Make a decision to commit your partner or Lee. If you are the partner who had the cheater and you are racking your brain to cry, try to figure out what it was you did wrong. First of all, don’t look at celebrity relationships. They’re all bullshit. And like I said in the other podcast that I was doing, I was very disappointed to find Chris Hansen cheating on his wife.

32:41                                   And yes, there’s a difference between sending intimate photos to somebody who’s of age and somebody who’s not of age. Yeah, they’re sickos. But if you have a certain responsibility to just represent the good guys, the good side of things take that seriously/

33:39                                   But I am humbled when they come to me. I don’t sit there and say, Oh, I’m so magnificent.

But I WILL SAY that THIS is the last word on INFIDELITY. Don’t listen to anyone else!

35:24                                   You’re never going to hear it from me. You’re never going to hear anybody say that I cheated when I was with them. You’re never going to hear anybody say, I sent them [inaudible] photos. You’re never going to hear anybody say that I did this, that another, anything that I tell you the truth shall true. I hope. I hope I help. I help that my podcast ruin true to you. So that’s the infidelity podcast. And please understand that you do not own somebody else’s bad behavior. They own it. You own what you do with it. You can accept it, you can change it, you can leave. And if somebody has cheated, I highly recommend leave, leave and figure it out for yourself. You can do this.

Guide To MLT Topic Pages

Below you will find a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on personality disorders, a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on dating and a link to a post that lists most of the podcasts done on Grief, Loss and Rejection and Attachment.

We do have other episodes on the grief process, please see the Quick Episode Guide, linked below (in red) to see ALL the grief episodes.  This one was a specific GRIEF SERIES but there are many more episodes pertaining to grief. 

Of course we have much more topics, but these are the "most requested," as of now. We are working to get all of our topics together like this, but for now, these are the 3 most popular and most requested. More soon! to request a topic, send email to us!!! 

See also the Quick Episode Guide for episodes tagged with these keywords.  

 

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This is the MLT Dating Page - Go HERE

This is the MLT Grief, Loss and Attachment Episodes Page - Go HERE

 

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GPYB Books

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GPYB Newsletter

The Getting Past Your Breakup Website

Why Is It Called The Mean Lady Talking?

Episode 1: The Mean Lady Talking Podcast

Some of MLT's Best!

Episode 36a: The MLT Grief and Loss Series

Episode 59a: Attachment, Rejection & Grief Series

Episode 63a: Sick Relationships and Our Recovery From Them Part 1

Episode 39a: Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths and the Watts Family Murders Part 1

Episode 13: Personality Disorders and a Disordered Publication

Episode 56: Jealousy, Blaming and Gaslighting

Episode 1: Why Is It Named The Mean Lady Talking Podcast?

Episode 54a: Narcissists, Love Bombing, Mirroring and Catfishing Jerks

Episode 5: Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Grief, Guilt and Regret

MLT 80 Great Expectations and Narcissists

Show Notes

Mean Lady Talking Podcast Episode 80 

Talking About Great Expectations and Narcissists

What We've Been Working On!  Topic Pages!

Guide To Topic Pages

Below you will find a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on personality disorders, a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on dating and a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on Grief, Loss and Rejection and Attachment. 

 

This is the MLT Personality Disorders Page - Go HERE

This is the MLT Dating Page - Go HERE

This is the MLT Grief, Loss and Attachment Episodes Page - Go HERE

 

Subscribe and Listen Now On All Major Platforms!!!

 

Idea for the Show? Suggest a Topic? Email Us Here!

Follow the Mean Lady Talking Podcast on Social Media!

The Mean Lady Talking is a GPYB Production

GPYB Books

GPYB Coaching and Counseling

GPYB Newsletter

The Getting Past Your Breakup Website

Why Is It Called The Mean Lady Talking?

Episode 1: The Mean Lady Talking Podcast

Some of MLT's Best!

Episode 36a: The MLT Grief and Loss Series

Episode 59a: Attachment, Rejection & Grief Series

Episode 63a: Sick Relationships and Our Recovery From Them Part 1

Episode 39a: Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths and the Watts Family Murders Part 1

Episode 13: Personality Disorders and a Disordered Publication

Episode 56: Jealousy, Blaming and Gaslighting

Episode 1: Why Is It Named The Mean Lady Talking Podcast?

Episode 54a: Narcissists, Love Bombing, Mirroring and Catfishing Jerks

Episode 5: Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Grief, Guilt and Regret

MLT 79 Talking About Goals and Planning

Part of getting back on track is using my own advice and the goal worksheets in the workbook, which I have not really used in years.  Guess what?  They work!

 

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Below you will find a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on personality disorders, a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on dating and a link to a post that lists ALL the podcasts done on Grief, Loss and Rejection and Attachment. 

 

This is the MLT Personality Disorders Page - Go HERE

This is the MLT Dating Page - Go HERE

This is the MLT Grief, Loss and Attachment Episodes Page - Go HERE

 

Subscribe and Listen Now On All Major Platforms!!!

 

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Follow the Mean Lady Talking Podcast on Social Media!

The Mean Lady Talking is a GPYB Production

GPYB Books

GPYB Coaching and Counseling

GPYB Newsletter

The Getting Past Your Breakup Website

Why Is It Called The Mean Lady Talking?

Episode 1: The Mean Lady Talking Podcast

Some of MLT's Best!

Episode 36a: The MLT Grief and Loss Series

Episode 59a: Attachment, Rejection & Grief Series

Episode 63a: Sick Relationships and Our Recovery From Them Part 1

Episode 39a: Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths and the Watts Family Murders Part 1

Episode 13: Personality Disorders and a Disordered Publication

Episode 56: Jealousy, Blaming and Gaslighting

Episode 1: Why Is It Named The Mean Lady Talking Podcast?

Episode 54a: Narcissists, Love Bombing, Mirroring and Catfishing Jerks

Episode 5: Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Grief, Guilt and Regret

MLT Ep 78 Talking About This and That

Talking about the short hiatus I’ve been on and how I’ve been working on things.  Please let me know what you want to hear! 

Show Notes

This and That 

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Mentioned In This Epiosde

Male Stalking Victims

Travis ALexanser and Ryan Poston

 

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Why Is It Called The Mean Lady Talking?

Episode 1: The Mean Lady Talking Podcast

Some of MLT's Best!

Episode 36a: The MLT Grief and Loss Series

Episode 59a: Attachment, Rejection & Grief Series

Episode 63a: Sick Relationships and Our Recovery From Them Part 1

Episode 39a: Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths and the Watts Family Murders Part 1

Episode 13: Personality Disorders and a Disordered Publication

Episode 56: Jealousy, Blaming and Gaslighting

Episode 1: Why Is It Named The Mean Lady Talking Podcast?

Episode 54a: Narcissists, Love Bombing, Mirroring and Catfishing Jerks

Episode 5: Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Grief, Guilt and Regret

MLT Ep 77 Talking About Boundaries, Codependency, Narcissists

Boundaries, Self-Esteem and Narcissists

By special request – from a Meanie – some general topics we talk about a lot….is it GIVING or is it MANIPULATION????   When we are codependent and  have little self-esteem, we have to think about this.  We’re talking about giving, getting involved with “project people” and fixer uppers, boundaries, self-esteem and narcissists. 

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Boundaries, Codependency and Narcissists

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Episode 1: The Mean Lady Talking Podcast

Some of MLT's Best!

Episode 36a: The MLT Grief and Loss Series

Episode 59a: Attachment, Rejection & Grief Series

Episode 63a: Sick Relationships and Our Recovery From Them Part 1

Episode 39a: Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths and the Watts Family Murders Part 1

Episode 13: Personality Disorders and a Disordered Publication

Episode 56: Jealousy, Blaming and Gaslighting

Episode 1: Why Is It Named The Mean Lady Talking Podcast?

Episode 54a: Narcissists, Love Bombing, Mirroring and Catfishing Jerks

Episode 5: Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Grief, Guilt and Regret

MLT Episode 74 Talking About “Soft Ghosting” Ghosting & BS Behavior

MLT EP 74:  Talking About “Soft Ghosting” Ghosting & BS Behavior

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Talking About "Soft Ghosting" Ghosting & BS Behavior

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