In this episode we are talking about not knowing that we didn’t know. And how we beat ourselves up for something we couldn’t possibly know. We get mixed signals from someone, we base our impression of them on our own frames of reference, and we know NOTHING about disordered or extremely dysfunctional behavior so we go along rather oblivious.  Then we beat ourselves up when we do get clued in.  That is NOT the way to do it.  Gentle listeners: BE GENTLE WITH YOU!

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